One item that’s difficult to chew over is when you got the woman of your life fooling you or entertains someone else on the side. But as you would likely prefer it not to be, there will come a time in your relationship where doubts start knocking on the door and suspicion will creep in.
Most of the time that suspicion turns out to be nothing. But, there are times, far too often, when those fears or suspicions are completely warranted. So, how do you know when to worry and when to let things slide?
If you notice these clues then you might want to start worrying.
She has that unique sparkle in her eyes. It is you who spent a number of hours together that you’ll notice even a little smile or sigh from her. There is no better judge on her varied looks in the planet than you. Check out what you can from those eyes.
You are suddenly catching her in a lot of lies. Cheating seems to bring out the liar in men and women who are doing it to the people they love. They don’t want to cause pain. They don’t know how to make it right. And they aren’t sure they are ready for things to end with the other man. So she lies. If it’s out of character for her and you’re suddenly catching her in more than her fair share of untruths it might be cause for alarm.
She out of a sudden is sporting a new self.
When there’s a sudden change in her grooming, her style and her overall appearance, then you must stand alert. If you notice that she’s wearing a new perfume, or tends to rush straight to the bathroom for a shower every time she comes home, or just plain obsessed with her figure then you must be on the look out to try hard to know the bottom of all of this and find out for whom is she dressing up for.
Is your girl suddenly putting in a lot of overtime hours without anything to show for her efforts? Everyone has to work overtime on occasion. When the overtime begins to have a pattern or doesn’t make show up on her paychecks then it might be an excuse for something else.
Does your girlfriend have a history of cheating? Women who cheat in the past have already shown a capacity for cheating and may cheat again. Not everyone who has cheated before will cheat again but if she has cheated in the past and she is displaying some of these other clues there may be trouble ahead.
There are things that she hides away from you. Added to the lies she tells, secrets become a huge chunk of cheating for most women. Haven’t you noticed how she suddenly becomes alert in keeping receipts, expenses, emails and information from you? I could bet my money on it, but this mean some trouble brewing in paradise. Furthermore this suggests too that she’s planning a surprise for you also.
There are no sure clues but the presence of one or more of these clues means you either need to take action now or plan how to get your ex back when the breakup does come.